What is Your Spouse Using to Keep Their Office Romance a Secret?

What if you knew exactly what your spouse is doing right now to hide their office affair from you?

Do you want to learn how to tell if your spouse is cheating on you at work? Do you want to learn what places to look for proof that he or she could be having an affair?

Then you have come to the right place!

For the rest of this article I'm going to be detailing exactly where your spouse is likely to be hiding proof that they are sleeping with another woman / man that they met through their place of employment.

Basically, I've broken this article up into four different parts describing the four different 'fronts' your spouse could be using to hide his or her activity from you.

Hiding Spot #1. His Company Email is Easy to Keep Secret

It is extremely easy for your spouse to hide any amount of communication from you when they have access to a private company email.

They can even give you a rock solid excuse as to why you're not allowed to see his / her inbox by telling you that it contains 'private company info' or something silly like that.

They can come up with any number of excuses, really, for you not to have access to this critical channel of communication

Even if you do find a way to get into this e-mail account, it extremely easy to delete or hide something that your spouse doesn't want you to see. However, if your spouse is part of an affair at work, than you can bet your bottom dollar that the company email is one thing he (or she) will be using.

Hiding Spot #2. Her Company Phone is 'Only for Work Calls'

Or at least, that's what they tell you when you ask to use it.

If your spouse is very touchy or sensitive when it comes to their company given cell phone, then chances are there could be something more than meets the eye.

Many times your spouse will prefer communicating on a company given cell phone rather than their own personal cell phone, because (s)he knows that you're less likely to look there for proof.

They also probably know that if you're going to install GPS tracking (many cheaters are paranoid about this at some point or another) that you would not want to do it on a company phone for fear of legal trouble down the road.

Afterall, as a married couple TECHNICALLY a personal cell phone is also part your property, so legally there's no problems tracking them, even unknowingly. However, a company phone is COMPANY property, and installing a tracking program is almost certainly illegal.

This is a huge advantage to your spouse.

Hiding Spot #3. Their Lunch Break is 'Only 30 Minutes Long'

This stereotypical lunch hook up is much more common than most people realize, especially when it comes to affairs at work.

Your spouse is probably telling you that they only have 20 to 30 minutes for their lunch break, but in fact there's nothing really stopping them from sneaking off for an hour or two, depending on their responsibilities as an employee.

In many jobs it's very easy to get away for up to an hour on your lunch break if you really wanted to, as long as you're not doing it too frequently. In fact, I remember working at a hospital that let us lower level employees (file management) get away with taking hour and a half lunch breaks!

Obviously this isn't directly relevant to you, I'm just using this as an example to let you know that even in this supposedly strict and regimented environment such as a hospital it's more than possible to sneak away during your lunch break for long periods of time...

Certainly long enough for an afternoon romantic rendevous.

Hiding Spot #4. The Office Christmas Party is 'Employees Only'

Any non-work-related office events are almost always a hot spot for employee-to-employee romance.

Just think about it - There's music in the air, you're feeling warm from the alcohol and that girl you've been eyeing in the cubicle next to you is coming onto you HARD.

What do you think is going to happen?

What ALWAYS inevitably happens between two people with chemistry once they get a little tipsy?

You guessed it. An affair is born.

Is There Any Way to Know For Sure?

Obviously the next question once you've identified the elements that your spouse COULD be using to enable an affair at work is...

How do you get proof? How do you confirm your suspicions and uncover the truth?

Well, it won't be easy. I can tell you that right now. In fact, you might be more confused now than you were when you started reading this article, but don't worry, that's not necessarily a bad thing.

It means that you're thinking...you're letting your mind wander to areas you had closed off before, because you didn't WANT to face what could be the truth.

This is a good thing! Albeit a painful, good thing.

Even though this article is almost over, I want to help you out. So this is what I'm going to do:

If you think that your spouse could legitimately be having an affair at work, then you owe it to yourself to further your investigation. I want to help you do exactly that, for free!

For free, you ask? Really? Yep. Just head on over to my dedicated affair-help blog if you suspect cheating!

Either way, thanks for reading!