Would you like to know the truth about what your husband is doing behind your back?
Do you suspect that your spouse has been a little less than faithful to you and your marriage?
As you continue reading this article I'm going to be discussing 5 extremely common signs of a cheating husband that many women, for some reason, seem to miss.
Please keep in mind that none of the signs by themselves are 100% proof that your husband is having an affair, however, each criteria that he meets is one step closer to guaranteed that he's cheating.
If your husband meets any of the signs laid out here, be careful. Tread lightly, and make sure you know what you're getting yourself into.
But enough warnings, you know why your here, so let's get to it.
5 Common Signs of an Unfaithful Husband
Sign #1 - A Close Friend is Treating You Oddly
Although it doesn't always seem obvious, many times you can learn a lot about what your husband is doing behind your back from your own friends behavior.
Have they started treating you differently?
Does it seem like no one is ever looking you in the eyes anymore?
Have you been getting weird phone calls to the house from someone you thought was just an acquaintance?
Each of these could warn of an affair in their own way.
You should also examine any mutual friends between you and your spouse for odd behavior, since they are slightly more likely to know what's going on.
Sign #2 - His Email Password Changes (and He Won't Tell You What it is)
Although I don't want to get into the issue of sharing finances between spouses, one thing I do believe in is sharing access to email accounts and social media accounts, even if you don't share the accounts themselves. There's just no reason why you should have to hide your communication with other people from your spouse.
Many legitimate couples feel the same way as I do.
And in fact, I'd wager that at 1 point or another you learned your spouse's e-mail address password because they needed you to retrieve something for them when they couldn't get to a computer, or some similar situation.
So if out of the blue you realize that you don't know your husband's email password, when it wasn't that long ago that you DID know it (in other words it changed semi-recently), then watch out!
This could be a sign that your husband is being unfaithful.
Sign #3 - Your Husband Wants More Sex Than He Did Before
This is probably the sign of a cheating husband that the most women don't understand.
To us it may seem obvious that during an affair you would want to have less sex with your spouse.
After all, why would he be cheating at all if he was happy in your own bedroom?
Well, I can't say that it makes perfect sense, but for some reason lots of men tend to want MORE sex once they start having regular sex.
Really thinking about it, it makes sense.
I mean when was the last time that you felt as if your husband was genuinely satisfied with your sex Life?
Doesn't it always seem like he's just wanting more, more, more?
If not currently, then I'm sure you can think of a time.
Either way, any changes in the frequency of sexual intimacy should be carefully noted as they could point to other changes in your husband's sex life.
Sign #4 - Passionate About a Brand Spankin' New Hobby
Has your husband suddenly become obsessed with a new band? Maybe he's pulled out that all drum set from years back and has decided he wants to 'get back into it'?
Or maybe he's started caring about his clothes, or he's taken up lifting weights and eating healthy, or maybe even it's just a new obsession with FaceBook.
It could be anything, but the point is that it's new, and he's doing it a lot.
This probably means that the cause is some other social influence (besides yourself), and if you suspect cheating than this seems like an obvious clue.
Sign #5 - He Has a New Keychain
Okay, maybe doesn't have to be a new key chain, specifically. It could be any small trinket as long as it's something that he started carrying around with him recently.
You see, many times when two people engage in a secret extra marital relationship (an affair), they feel invincible, bold, and uncatchable.
So what do they do?
They get stupid, and they start carrying a small token with them as a reminder of their 'other lover'.
You'd be surprised how many men engage in this stupid habit during an affair, it's almost astonishing.
So if you notice that your husband has a new key chain, a new wallet, a new bracelet, or maybe something new hanging in his car, then this could be a secret gift from his lover.
Consider yourself warned.
Where To From Here? What About Actual Proof?
Okay, I know what's on your mind right now. You're thinking "Great, I have all these clues, the signs of a cheating husband, what do I do with them?"
"How do I actually CATCH him cheating?"
Well, as I'm sure you can imagine, it's much easier said than done. But don't worry, it's normal to have questions and it's normal to be confused. Be patient, take a time, and proof will come eventually.
That being said, here's what I'd like to do for you right now:
If you want more signs of a cheating husband or you'd just like to learn more about dealing with affairs in general, then head on over to my affair blog for all the free affair-help resources you could possibly need.
Whatever you do from here, I wish you the best of luck.
Thanks for reading!
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