3 Hot Spots You Can Use to Catch a Cheating Husband

Are you one of the thousands of women who will come to suspect their husband is cheating during this Holiday Season?

Unfortunately, the odds are stacked against you.  These days there are more marriages that have to deal with infidelity than those that don't, so if you suspect that your husband is cheating, you should go ahead and prepare yourself for the worst.

I'm sorry for being blunt, and I'm sorry to be the one that has to say this to you, but studies show that 85% of women who suspect their husbands are cheating are correct, so there's no sense in dancing around the truth.

Rather, as you continue reading this article I'm going to be talking to you about three places that you can look to find indisputable proof that your husband is cheating on you. 

If you get through each of these three places and don't see any signs of a cheating husband, then and only then should you allow your guard down.  Even still, I would be careful, as you never know how sneaky your husband can be.

3 Hot Spots for Signs of a Cheating Husband

As I said, below you're going to find three places that I have found to be hot spots for evidence when it comes to learning how to catch a cheating husband.

They may not be perfect, and they may not work 100% of the time, but I would wager that 9 times out of 10 you're bound to find some sort of physical evidence in one of these places.

Evidence Hot Spot #1 - In His Car

What do all affairs have in common?  They all require transportation, time and money.  If your husband is taking time out of his day to meet someone else, then chances are he's going to be spending some time in his car while he's speaking around.

• Check for physical evidence, such as hair
• Check for financial evidence, such as receipts
• Check his odometer and keep track of his mileage

No matter how sneaky or smooth your husband is, eventually he's going to slip up and leave behind some trace evidence of his secret infidelity.  You just have to be there to find it!

Evidence Hot Spot #2 - In His Wallet

Remember earlier I said that all affairs require money? 

There is actually quite a bit of truth to this, and it's one of the easiest ways to catch a cheating spouse.  If your husband is wining and dining and other woman, then there is going to be a Financial Paper trail.

If he's sneaking around on adult dating sites, then this one to be a paper trail for that, too.

• Does he show you his pay stubs?
• What about his credit card bills and ATM withdrawals?
• Check his wallet for receipts, or worse yet, condoms
• Check his wallet for photos and phone numbers

Many times a husband thinks of their wallet as a secret hidden safe that you will never be able to look through, so it's not uncommon for them to keep a small trinket or token of affection for their mistress.

They like the thought of keeping it close and keeping it hidden from you at the same time. 

If you can get access to your husband's wallet, do so ASAP!

Evidence Hot Spot #3 - In His Cell Phone

This one is a little bit trickier, as it's probably not going to be quite as easy to look for your husband cell phone as his wallet or his car.

However, that is all the more reason for you to do some investigation!  Many times you can literally see communication between your husband and his lover in the form of text messages!

You might be surprised at what you learn.

• Look through his past phone calls
• Look through his past text messages
• Look through any photos stored on his cell phone
• Does he have a smart phone? See if he's used the GPS on his phone recently
• What about the internet browser on his phone? Any signs of cheating there?

Honestly, I've heard more tragic horror stories of infidelity discovery involving the spouse is cell phone than any other source of evidence, so take this suggestion seriously.

I Haven't Found Evidence, But I'm Still Suspicious of My Husband!

Sometimes your husband has discovered his tracks too well.

If you believe that your husband is sneaky enough to understand how to hide his affair from you, even after looking for all of these evidence hot spots, then you could be dealing with a real monster.

This is when you have to get serious, and do whatever it takes to get to the truth.

When worst comes to worse and you're really just need to know the truth no matter what, you can (and probably should) resort to spouse tracking surveillance.

This is without a doubt the easiest and most guaranteed way to find out your husband's illicit activities.

Either way, don't get discouraged, and keep seeking the truth!

Read more at my affair-help blog, http://SignsCheating.com

Thanks for reading!

Is She Cheating? There's Only One Way to Find Out the Truth

I'm sure you've already realized that learning how to tell if your wife is cheating is not very easy, in fact, it's quite difficult.

If you suspect your wife could be having an affair, then there are a lot of things working against you.

Like yourself, for instance.

You're probably confused, doubtful, and more than a little guilty for thinking that your wife could possibly be cheating on you..."Surely not MY wife", you say.

And yet, that gut feeling will still remains. That feeling that she's no longer committed to your marriage, your family, or just you in general.

So what should you do?

Well, throughout the rest of this article I will be talking to you about some specific signs that you can use to learn how to tell if your wife is cheating on you.

These won't be pretty, and writing about them for me probably won't be as hard as reading them for you, but rest assured that when all's said and done you'll be closer to the truth.

Does She Have an Increased Interest in Her Friends?

One of the first things that your wife is going to be feeling leading up to her affair is a sense of loneliness, entrapment and helplessness. She will feel like the marriage isn't as fulfilling as it should, so the next place where to turn is to her own friends.

In this isn't always the first step... Sometimes by the time she's turned to her friends she's already prepared to cheat on you in her mind.

The point is that if your wife is showing an INCREASED interest in spending more time with her friends, then that could even be the front that she's using when she's meeting her other man, or it could just be a sign of things to come.

Either way, it's probably not good, especially if you're already suspicious.

Please note that I am not condemning your wife having friends.

In fact I strongly believe that a husband and wife should have separate groups of friends, since everyone needs a break from each other every once in awhile, no matter how happy your marriage is.

It's only when your wife starts showing an INCREASE in the desire to spend time with your friends that you should start being worried. If she has always had friends and is spending just as much time with them as she used to, well that's nothing to worry about.

Does She Show a Decreased Interest in Your Family?

This is one of the most potent signs that your wife is cheating out there, especially when stacked on top of an increased desire to spend time with her friends.

If your wife is feeling trapped in your marriage, then you can bet that she's going to start naturally pulling away from not only you but the rest of your family as well. Basically what she's doing is she's preemptively burning bridges, even if she doesn't know it yet. She's preparing, in her mind, for the date when you two part ways.

She's desensitizing herself to your marriage in an effort to make herself feel better.

Of course it won't work, and it will actually make her feel worse, but to her this is the only encouragement to keep going the way she is, further and further into an affair.

Are Your Kids Acting Strangely?

As I'm sure you've realized by now if you're a parent, many times our kids are much more perceptive than we are.

They're strong undeveloped subconscious is capable of picking things up that we're used to 'looking over' or 'ignoring'.

What this means for you is that if there's something going on with your wife that is significantly out of place, then your child is likely to have picked up on it as well, even if they haven't voiced their concern to you.

They probably don't realize exactly what it means, but many times if your child is getting a strange feeling or starts acting strangely around you or your wife, it could mean that they're getting a strong 'gut feeling' something's wrong, just like you are!

So Where To From Here? How Do I Get Proof?

Obviously, before you can confront your wife with your concerns it is best to try and get undeniable proof that she's cheating on you. You don't want to confront her only to have for deny all accusations... You'd be worse off than you are now.

So you need to get proof, and you need to do it fast. But how?

That's the question.

Unfortunately, it's not within the scope of this article for me to answer that question...Mostly because I've already answered it elsewhere.

I recommend you head on over to my blog - SignsCheating.com - for all the free help, guides and resources that you'll need.

Alternatively, if you'd like me to point you to a specific article worth reading, then I'd suggest reading this: 


Free => How to Catch a Cheating Wife 


That should help give you all the direction and instruction that you need.


Whatever you do from here, 


I wish you good luck, and I thank you for reading this article.

Use These Tips to Catch a Cheating Spouse

We've all heard horror stories about a friend of a friend's spouse who cheated.  We've all heard about the trauma, the confusion,and the general emotional turbulence that's brought on by the discovery of a cheating spouse.

Yet, when it happens to us, no matter how many stories we've heard, we're just as lost and confused as anyone else.

The fact of the matter is that there is very little you can do to prepare for your spouse to commit infidelity. 

It will hit you like a train, and even if you saw it coming you'll still feel awful, or at the very least alone.

So what's my point?

Well, what I've found is that many times learning the truth, instead of just having strong suspicions, can help you move forward, which is really what we want to do.  Move forward.

If you suspect cheating, and these are my tips to you:

1. Trust Yourself - Remember that statistically speaking your suspicions are probably correct.  Don't waste time second listing yourself or debating whether or not you should pursue the truth about what's going on behind your back...Just do it.
2. Hide Your Suspicions - The worst thing you can do is alert your spouse they're on to them.  Not only will this cause problems in your marriage if you're wrong, but if you're right too will make it significantly harder to find proof. Why? Because an alert spouse is careful; an ignorant spouse is stupid.
3. Document Everything - This should go without saying, but too many times I see men and women who have legitimate proof that they are being cheated on, but when it comes time to go to court or a divorce settlement they're left powerless all because they didn't keep a record.  It may not come to that for you, but there aren't many situations where it's a BAD thing to keep a record.

If you follow those three tips you'll soon find yourself moving much closer to the truth, and they should help you to cope with the prospect of infidelity a little better as well.

So What Do You Do Now?

As I said at the beginning of this article, the important thing is that you keep moving forward.  1 foot in front of the other. 

I know that things are pretty tough right now, and for that im extremely sorry, but don't let yourself get trapped in this misery.  There's a way out, and it lies right in front of you. Just move forward.

I understand that you still have quite a few questions right now, unfortunately I just don't have room in this article to answer any more. So this is what I'm going to do:


I'd like to recommend you check out my affair-help blog - 101 Signs of Cheating - for more advice. Alternatively, if you're ready to move from suspicion to proof and you want to get there as quickly as possible, there's a specific resource that I think you should check out. 


Recommended - How to Catch a Cheating Spouse Either way you choose, however, I think you'll find what you're looking for. 
I wish you the best of luck, and remember... Just move forward. No matter what.